Once you're on minecraftsurvivalgames.com you can see a bunch of buttons above. Home, Servers, Forums etc.. Click on servers and then find a server that's in deathmatch, not many people connect to those so it'll give you a higher chance to join. Usually takes 1-3 minutes but you'll be fine. I highly suggest using direct connect since it's more efficient than using the list. Type in the servers ip, example: eu1.mcsg.in. And then keep direct connecting. After deathmatch is done it will say Endgame while trying to connect that stage ends fast so you'll have to be ready to connect to the server. After it's done it will say Cleanup and that's when you want to direct connect all the time till you've joined. After that you just enjoy!
